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  • Troy Spradlin 10:37 pm on September 5, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #57 – Team dynamics and conflicts. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, things are not the same in the mission field as they are back home. No matter how good of friends you may think you are with someone, or how well prepared you suppose yourself to be, there are going to be crashes, conflicts, or crisis with your fellow workers. A foreign mission field is a completely different environment with different forces at work on all the senses. The manner in which we handle these difficult situations is the key. In times such as these, try to remember this passage, “Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong” (1 Corinthians 16:3). Soldiers must not only guard against the enemy from outside, but also from within. Satan couldn’t be happier than to see a squadron of the Lord’s army dissolve on account of some trivial internal conflict. It is another victory for him. Let us be mature, sensible, and responsible men toward one another in order to resolve whatever issue may arise. I am thankful and blessed to have such wonderful team mates. We have had our share of conflicts, but every one of them has been handled extraordinarily well. I believe it is because we desire to put the Lord’s kingdom first in our lives.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 9:32 am on August 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #56 – “Mission Reports.” While I was recently visiting another missionary, I witnessed him writing his report to his supporters. He affirmed something that I had already believed by telling me, “a good report is not just about how many baptisms there were, but about what is happening within the local church.” I couldn’t agree with him more. So often, it seems that many brethren think the number of baptisms per month is all that matters. The more baptisms the “better” the work, right? Friend, that is NOT what the Great Commission says! Also, since 1 Corinthians 3:6 says that “God gives the increase” then how can we put an emphasis on counting baptisms? Our focus should simply be sowing the pure seed of the Gospel and strengthening the saints, allowing the Word to work in people’s lives. When a new babe in Christ starts taking an active role in service, that is worth reporting. Or, when leaders begin to develop from within the congregation, that is worth reporting. Mission work is not only about baptisms but also about generating Bible study contacts, guiding new converts in their Christian walk, and teaching others to teach others (2 Timothy 2:2).

     

  • Troy Spradlin 2:36 pm on August 9, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #55 – “An open door just a few doors down.” It took a considerable amount of time, effort, and money to get from Paraguay to Panama in order to meet up with my team mates for a short term mission trip. We had all traveled to the Darien jungle to evangelize the surrounding area, as well as, to encourage the church there and teach some classes. We were excited about the possibilities! We stayed at the Hotel Felicidad in Metiti and traveled down the road to the church building everyday. A young woman, Maria, was a guest at the same hotel in which we were staying. She told us she was from Nicaragua and was traveling with her husband. He worked all day in the jungle while she and her daughter, Faviola, sat around the hotel. Since the ladies of the local church were preparing lunch for us, we decided to invite Maria and Faviola to join us. They really enjoyed themselves. Then, Maria started asking some questions and wanted to know more about this “church” that she was seeing. We shared the Gospel with her and she decided the next day to be baptized. It is interesting that we all had traveled from different parts of the world, but through a chance meeting in a mutual location, another soul was added to the Book of Life.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 11:16 am on August 5, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #54 – “Getting sick in Panama.” Yellow Fever shots were acquired before making the trip to the jungle. Many of the team took medicine to prevent contracting Malaria. Mosquito repellent was constantly being applied to prevent getting Dengue. We were careful to avoid drinking the water so as not to get bad digestive bacterias. Yet, despite all these best efforts, most of the team got sick. Not from any of the illnesses that we were prepared for, but instead, from another air-born, highly contagious, flu-like virus. One of our team mates was so sick that he had to go to the doctor while still in Panama. We were thankful the physician was able to help him. Now, doesn’t that exactly describe the situation in which all of humanity finds itself? We are subject to a disease that despite all of our best efforts, we will contract one form of it or another. It is called sin. For example, we may be able to prevent ourselves from being a murder, but then easily slip into covetousness. We may not commit adultery but find ourselves stricken with a lying tongue. It is a disease that effects everyone (Romans 3:23). Aren’t you thankful that we have the “Great Physician” to help us with a cure?

     

    • Mike Riley 4:19 pm on August 5, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Yes, I’m very thankful we have the “Great Physician” to help us with a cure for sin.

  • Troy Spradlin 8:35 am on July 26, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #53 – I just returned to the mission field from a mission trip. I know that sounds a little strange, but after spending two weeks in Panama on a short term mission trip, I have just arrived back “home” at the place where I am serving as a missionary. I put the word “home” in quotation marks because despite the fact that my home (as in my family and household belongings) is currently in Paraguay, I am still a foreigner in this country. While my coworkers in Panama were able to return to their homes in the USA, I returned to yet another Latin country and its environment. They say “home is where the heart is.” Well, I may live in Paraguay, but I am an American citizen, so my heart is with my country. Above that, however, I am a Christian first. Therefore, where ever I may be, whether it be Panama, Paraguay, or even the USA, it is a mission field. Souls are at stake and we must be about the business of sowing seed. With this perspective, I suppose it would be more accurate to quote a line from that old Gospel song, “This world is not my home, I’m just a passing through.”

     

  • Troy Spradlin 4:38 pm on July 9, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #52 – “Out of Office.” I apologize to all my “Fellowship Room” colleagues for my recent absence here on the site … and … bring notice that I will be out for yet another couple of weeks. One word sums it up: BUSY! We just received our container with all our household items, so it has been a whirlwind week of paper chasing, customs inspections, legalese, and unloading. Despite all that, the Mrs is VERY happy right now that she has all her things. Nothing received any real damage, so we have been blessed with a good move.
    Tomorrow morning, I leave for Panama for two weeks. I am joining some brethren from our sponsoring congregation (Margaret Street church of Christ – Milton, FL) on a mission trip to the Darien. Looking forward to a great time teaching and preaching in the jungle. Once I get back and settle down a bit, I promise I will get busy writing again for the “Fellowship Room.” Thank you for the opportunity and God bless!

     

  • Troy Spradlin 11:30 am on July 2, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #51 – Street Workers, you gotta love ‘em! But, they tear at your emotions. There are some who are extremely rude and aggressive, like the one’s who always want to clean your windshield. (They tend to test one’s patience). There are also some who are kind and helpful, like those who sell fruit, or newspapers. (They tend to make us smile). Then, there are some that you just don’t know what to do with, like the barefoot woman in the street, carrying a baby, and asking for handouts. This really tugs at the heart strings! After a while, however, I began to notice that the babies never cried whether it was hot, cold, rainy, or dusty. Sadly, we recently learned that many of these babies are drugged so that they will remain docile while the “street mom” works. I write “street mom” because we also learned that some women will “rent” out their babies to make a little money. So, both the mother and the “street mom” use the child in order to appeal to your emotions and get a hand out. Yet, despite all these circumstances, our Lord tells us we must have “agape” love for them – that is, ALL the street workers, which are included in ALL mankind, (Matthew 22:39). The hardest part to learn is that in order to have agape love for someone, we must understand that it is not dependent upon the other person’s actions, circumstances, or relationship to us. It only depends upon our very own “heartset.”

     

  • Troy Spradlin 5:41 pm on June 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #50 – I just discovered that it is a very surreal feeling to read mission reports from abroad while actually being abroad. I have always been interested in mission work and have become quite accustomed to reading reports from all around the world. I receive several from various brethren. I love seeing how the Gospel is having an effect in other parts of the globe and it is thrilling to hear about the missionaries’ works and adventures. Just recently, I was reading one of these reports when it struck me that I am currently experiencing some of the same things as them. What a strange sensation! An American missionary reading about another American missionary and being able to personally relate to what they are saying. For me, that’s just neat!

     

    • J. Randal Matheny 7:14 pm on June 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      I’ve been relating to most of what you’ve written, the more so since we both work in Latin American countries. ‘Tis neat, and I try to avoid commenting too much, so as not to be a bother. :)

  • Troy Spradlin 8:13 pm on June 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #49 – What’s your motive? One of our visitors from the States recently made this comment, “I already had a great deal of respect for you guys coming down to a foreign country to work as missionaries. But, after visiting here, my respect level for you has increased ten fold!” Not only did we appreciate them making this statement, but it also forced a dose of humility upon us. We don’t consider what we are doing as anything special, but instead, simply a privilege. How fortunate are we (that is, any of us) to be able to teach the Gospel to others? I am afraid many Christians feel it is an “obligation” that they must fulfill rather than it being a privilege. I know I once felt that way. I read the Great Commission and I thought, “I need to get busy if I want to be pleasing to the Lord.” That statement is true, however, my motive was wrong. I was getting busy for myself. I have since come to realize that I have salvation because of God’s love for me ….. AND my fellow man. We need to be busy for OTHERS so that they may also receive the precious gift offered by our Lord. This is where you find your motive, this is why we share the Gospel with others.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 6:19 pm on June 7, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #48 – Many times, Andrea has a way of saying things much better than I, so, I wanted to share this with the Fellowship Room in this edition of “Culture Shock Chronicles.”

    ANDREA SPRADLIN’S TOP 5 LIST of Things to Know Before Trying to Drive in Paraguay ….. #5 – You only need a blood test to get a drivers license. #4 – Ignore those lines in the middle of the road that seem to indicate there are two lanes. You can go 3 or 4 wide if you so desire. #3 – There is no “right of way.” However, buses (which dominate the landscape of the city) take full advantage of their “right of weight”. #2 – That thing that appears to be a sidewalk can be used to go 3 or 4 wide (see #4), but beware of motorcycles, as that is where they like to ride. ……. and, #1 – Stop signs are merely a suggestion.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 7:48 pm on June 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #47 – The other day, a nice young man rang our doorbell. He was very professional and explained that he was conducting an official survey. He wanted to get my opinion about Paraguayan politics, the different political parties, and other questions regarding the upcoming elections. I explained to him that I would be happy to participate, except I was a foreigner. He stopped, looked rather surprised, then abruptly said, “Dale, chau!” (Which means “OK thanks, bye!”) ….. I concluded that a foreigner’s opinion doesn’t matter much with Paraguayan politics …..

     

  • Troy Spradlin 8:26 pm on May 28, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #46 – Stateside visitors have proved to be an interesting gauge for us. How do I mean? Well for one, they show us how far we have come with the language. Listening to them struggle with phrases or questions reminds us of where we were just a short time ago. Because of them, we can now see that we have learned a great deal since first arriving in Paraguay. Second, when I asked one of our visitors how their trip was going, their response was “I am having complete sensory overload!” Hmmm? It never dawned on me that we have now passed that stage. Much of our surroundings have become somewhat “normal” to us. Yes, there are still strange and new sights everyday, but apparently, we must be getting used to it. Finally, watching our visitors lean on us heavily for translation, direction, and clarification demonstrated to us just how independent we have become over the past few months. No longer do we rely so much upon the more seasoned missionaries to help us around town or translate a transaction for us. Yes, it is refreshing for visitors to come, not just because they are a welcome sight from home, but also because it helps us see our work from a completely different perspective.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 11:38 pm on May 26, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #45 – I thought some of you might be interested in what a day in the life of a newly relocated missionary must be like, so I wanted to share our experiences.
    The first thing on our agenda is language school. We attend Spanish classes for about three hours every morning, Monday through Friday (we will continue doing this for our first year until we can speak the language fluently). If time is available afterward, we like to go to the gym for about 45 minutes, three days a week. Then, we have lunch – usually at home, but on Tuesdays, we go out with the team to a restaurant. Monday and Friday afternoons are my time to close the office, so we work at the building studying, writing reports, catching up on email, or making phone calls. Tuesday afternoons are team meetings. Thursdays are special study meetings. Two or three times a week, we pass out flyers at the local bus stops inviting people to a Bible study. At least once a week, we go visit one of our members in order to build stronger relationships with them. The evening drive home typically involves a stop at the grocery store (because food spoils quicker here, for some reason), the pharmacy, and/or places to pay bills. Dinner is followed by personal Bible study and then we like to relax by playing a game, or watching a little TV. Free Saturdays are usually spent sightseeing, otherwise, we assist with the planned church event. Sunday is worship and Wednesday night is weekly Bible study.
    Of course, all this is subject to change – and as anyone in ministry will tell you, it usually does …

     

  • Troy Spradlin 8:25 pm on May 24, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #44 – Paraguay just celebrated her 199th anniversary of independence from Spain. Their were celebrations, parades, and festivities all throughout the capital city of Asunción. Even many foreign dignitaries flew into the country just to participate in the events. Everywhere one might look there were patriotic colors, flags, and emblems proudly displayed in order to support the national holiday. Almost everyone was wearing some sort of pin, shirt, or hat that exhibited their national pride. Oh what a sight to behold … and it wasn’t even the BIG celebration, yet! That will be next year for their bi-centennial. I haven’t seen this kind of patriotism since America celebrated her own independence in 1976. (By the way, I was just a mere child, but I still remember). Now consider this, how marvelous would it be if Christians were to display their identity with such enthusiasm? No, we wouldn’t use flags, buttons, or t-shirts which could fade away. Instead, we would simply exhibit our identity in the way Christ commanded us, by showing our love toward one another (John 13:35). What a celebration that would be!

     

  • Troy Spradlin 8:01 pm on May 19, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #43 – Is there anything more encouraging to a foreign missionary than a care package from home??! I find it hard to imagine that there could be anything else. We just received our first from our sponsoring congregation in Milton, Florida. It was just a small box, with some trivial things inside, but it was one of the greatest gifts I believe we have ever received. I knew that every item in that box was purchased and placed there with us in mind. Our brethren went out of their way to provide a few little things that we had requested. To me, each item represented a great deal of love, a whole lot of encouragement, and a large portion of thoughtfulness. That little box gave me a lot more understanding to what Paul wrote in Philippians 2:4.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 6:44 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #42 – Where there is smoke there must be fire. Living in a third world country presents its unique expressions every day. For example, it is not uncommon to encounter someone who always smells like smoke, (not cigarette smoke, but rather, firewood smoke). It can happen on the bus, in the grocery store, at a soccer game, or even during worship. The reason is, many people in Paraguay do not have central heat and air in their homes, nor do they have a stove-top oven in their kitchens. Quite often, their only means of warmth during the winter is to build a fire. Most of the time, they must also do their cooking by building a small fire. Thus, they always smell like smoke. With just one quick whiff, it is possible to discern the lifestyle of another. Our Christian lives should be the same way, in many regards. Just as one can recognize that the smell of smoke is the result of being near fire, do our actions and words reflect the results of living a Christ centered life?

     

    • Steve 7:10 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, I’m a fairly new follower of the fellowship room and just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your posts. It allows us to not only see life in a foreign country, but also the joys and challenges of taking the Gospel to all the world! I occassionally share your comments with those who attend my Wed. Bible class. Our greatest takeaway so far: may we never take even the smallest joys for granted, but thank God that he has so bountifully provided!

    • Tina Cutsinger 9:53 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Great analogy Troy!

  • Troy Spradlin 8:04 pm on May 10, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #41 – Time to take my pulse in the culture shock process. We have been here for three months now and quite frankly, I am not quite sure where I fit in the different stages. The “Honeymoon Stage” seems to have worn off, but many things are still new and fascinating to me. The “Anger Stage” is next and although I have had my moments, I certainly don’t feel angry. That stage is followed by the “Superiority Stage.” Yes, I do feel that North Americans do many things better, but the South Americans certainly have us beat on several fronts. Does this mean I have already arrived at the “Acceptance Stage”? That can’t be, I just haven’t been here long enough. Perhaps I am not giving myself enough time to allow each of these various stages to manifest themselves more precisely. Yet, I feel am certainly growing more accustomed to my surroundings. I am more comfortable with the language. I also believe I am beginning to understand the culture and its people much better. Regardless of how I feel, however, there is one thing that I have definitely learned, everyday that I am here I see there is a greater amount of work to do in Paraguay. Souls are at risk and the clock is ticking faster …..

     

  • Troy Spradlin 6:54 pm on May 5, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #40 – Super Classico! That is what they call the big game here in Paraguay. It’s a long standing rivalry between two of their professional soccer clubs and they just played this past weekend. The game ended in a tie. I had the pleasure of watching the game with one of our brethren who is a big fan and we had a blast. It reminded me of our “big rivalries” in the US. We have our games like: Florida vs. Florida State, OU vs. Texas, Cowboys vs. Redskins, or Red Sox vs. Yankees (yes, I know there are a zillion others). There are rabid fans on either side and quite often, choosing one side or the other rests on various circumstances. Sometimes it is from family influence or legacy, sometimes it depends on what school one attends, or sometimes it is just by choice. Either way, once a side is picked, it is interesting to see how fans will defend their position with such intense vigor. Of course, this also started me thinking that perhaps there is a spiritual application that could be made here. However, it is no game. There is, indeed, a side that must be chosen and quite often, the decision is influenced by different factors. What side will you be standing on when He “separates the sheep from the goats”?

     

  • Troy Spradlin 6:07 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #39 – Citizenship. In Paraguay, there is one thing that is of the utmost importance, it is called a “Cedula.” It is important because without it, it is very difficult to get through the random police checks, open a simple bank account, sign a legal document, or remain in the country without having to leave every 90 days. The Cedula is the Paraguayan citizenship card. Foreigners can acquire a “resident” version, but it takes a very long time, involves a difficult process, and it requires a substantial amount of money. Being exposed to this as a foreigner in this country, I believe I now have a much better understanding as to what Paul was referring to in Philippians 3:20. As a Jewish descendant, Paul had unique citizenship in the Roman empire (cf Acts 22:22-29), but he valued his citizenship in heaven much more.

     

    • J. Randal Matheny 11:20 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Took us 3-4 years here to get our permanent visa and a lot of hoops. One thing that helped us was having a child while we were in the process. We were able to abbreviate it by applying for permanent residency on the basis of having a Brazilian child. Don’t know if Paraguay has anything similar.

  • Troy Spradlin 3:08 pm on April 30, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #38 – Street corner evangelism. I remember this is what got me excited about working in the mission field. The first time I ever came to Paraguay, we went around the city passing out flyers to advertise our upcoming VBS. I was amazed at how many people were so interested in what we were handing out and how open they were to talk about religious matters. (Much different than most of my experiences in the USA). Now, three years later, here I am again, standing on a street corner passing out invitations for free Bible studies. Most people thanked me for the invitation, others just smiled, but everyone took a flyer that I was able to get to! My work is to sow the seed, God will provide the increase. We have already had a few inquiries, so I am greatly encouraged. It sure warms my heart when I see people so interested in the Gospel message!

     

  • Troy Spradlin 6:11 pm on April 26, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #37 – “Mercado Quatro” is one of the many business sections located in a very old part of Asuncion, Paraguay. It is divided into specific quadrants of like trades and merchants. There is a street where they only sell furniture, there is another that only sells fruits and vegetables, and yet another where one can purchase cloths. This is very different from our American way of shopping where we have our Home Depots or Walmarts to get almost anything we want in one stop. As I walked down one of the streets of like merchants, I began to think of many old cities that were divided into sections. Most commercial cities of Biblical times where built this way. I developed a picture in my mind of Paul sitting among his fellow tradesmen making tents in the section of town where those type of merchants would be found (Acts 18:3). I imagined him sitting there working and preaching the Gospel to everyone with whom he came into contact. It was a refreshing reminder of why I am here in Asuncion.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 7:02 pm on April 22, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #36 – How do others see me? I have heard the saying many times, “The only sermon some people may hear is the one they see in the way you live your life.” I have also learned that being a Christian is not just a name that we wear, but it is something that we DO. This has never been more true to me than right now. In the mission field, I am not able to speak the language as well as I would like, but that doesn’t stop me from keeping busy serving others. How does this effect the way others view me? What stops any us from going to every study or function offered with the congregation? What’s to stop us from working in the kitchen at a church retreat or assisting others at a VBS? Or, when we go about our daily lives in the grocery store, the bank, or any place that we may find ourselves, do we act the way a Christian should act? There are many who may not be preaching from a pulpit in a church building, but we should all pray that our actions speak louder in the pulpit of our lives.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 7:48 pm on April 20, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #35 – Video conference calls are such a wonderful blessing! The preacher at our sponsoring congregation got the idea to have a video conference call just before services on a Wednesday night and connect the computer to the auditorium projector. He said that when our faces appeared on the screen “live” from Paraguay, that there were gasps, clapping, and tears shed. People were filing into the auditorium and a buzz of excitement was in the air. We were able to say, “Hello” to everyone back home and also see them on our computer screen. A few of our brethren asked us questions and we got to express how much we loved them, appreciated them, and missed them. That call brought a great deal of joy to the brethren of our sponsoring congregation, not to mention, that Andrea and I didn’t stop smiling for two days from the joy it brought us.

     

    • Mike Riley 7:55 pm on April 20, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      This is great, Troy! This is just one example of technology being used for good. New technology is making our world smaller and smaller.

    • Tina Cutsinger 8:04 pm on April 20, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      That is wonderful! I don’t know you Troy, but that was an uplifting post. May God bless you and your family. In christian love. Tina Cutsinger

    • Richard Hill 1:30 am on April 21, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      That’s cool!

  • Troy Spradlin 7:06 pm on April 19, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #34 – This past weekend we had a congregational retreat. We rented a little campground about 45 minutes outside the city that is maintained by a Korean denominational group. We spent two days singing, studying, worshiping, and fellow-shipping. This was my first experience with a church campground setting in a foreign country. It was wonderful! The entire weekend, I couldn’t help but think how thrilling it is to see God’s word working in the lives of the Paraguayans in the exact same way I am accustomed to seeing in the States. In reality, it doesn’t matter on what continent one may stand, God’s word touches hearts in any culture. The best part – going to camp “rejuvinated my spiritual batteries” even if it was in a different language!

     

  • Troy Spradlin 2:16 pm on April 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #33 – There are many cultural crossroads. One simple question within this context is, “What are you?” Are you an American first, or, are you a Christian first? In other words, do you place your citizenship as an American before your citizenship in heaven? What takes priority in your decision making process? There are many Christians who get this fundamental principle confused. Yes, the Bible says we are to be responsible citizens (Romans 13), but, it also says that we are a peculiar people, set apart from the world (1 Peter 2:9). Therefore, we need to make life decisions based upon how it will effect our citizenship in heaven, FIRST.
    This is not just an American problem. We have experienced this same problem here in Paraguay. One of the dominant threads running through the fabric of Paraguayan society is the “who you know” aspect. Our brethren will sometimes make decisions based upon how it will reflect upon them in society – even if it is contrary to the scriptures. So, the question becomes, “Are you a Paraguayan first, or a Christian first?” How will it effect your eternal destiny? (Acts 5:29)

     

  • Troy Spradlin 5:37 pm on April 12, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #32 – Street kids. One of the things that truly tugs at your heart strings in Asuncion, Paraguay is seeing so many children in the street. Most of them are working on the street corners and the medians. These children are either begging for coins, trying to sell a product or service, (like washing your windshield), or sometimes, they are being used by their parents to get you to give some money. Most of the kids are barefoot and poorly clothed. They stand out in the heat and diesel smoke all day. Paraguay is indeed a poor country and it is difficult for many to earn a living. But, it is truly sad when kids don’t get to be just kids and have to be thrown into a terrible circumstance like working a street median.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 5:14 pm on April 9, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #31 – It brings me to my knees every time. I have been raising funds for more than three years and as anyone who has ever done that will tell you, it is exhausting. There are so many emotions that one goes through that it would probably take a few volumes just to describe it in written word. But, there is one emotion which simply eclipses them all. It is the feeling I get when I receive a phone call or an email telling me that someone (or some congregation) wants to support our work. Yes, I feel happy and have excitement, but first, I am brought me to me knees, overwhelmed with thankfulness. I immediately go to God in prayer thanking Him for what He has provided. I have received a few of these calls and yet, it humbles me every time. I get this strange sensation in the pit of my stomach and then a realization overcomes me that I am just a meek and lowly servant in a vast and marvelous kingdom. I am serving the King of kings. I can only begin to imagine how overwhelmed Peter must have felt when he came face to face of the magnitude of our Lord´s almighty power when he was humbled before Jesus, (Luke 5:4-9).

     

  • Troy Spradlin 3:08 pm on April 7, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #30 – Just the bare necessities: food, clothing, shelter, companions, and the Bible. That’s all anyone REALLY needs. It is amazing how one can be content with so little. (Sounds very Pauline doesn’t it? cf. Phil. 4:11). Yet, we Americans prefer to have lot’s of STUFF. I once heard a weatherman advise people to please wait until after a hurricane had completely passed before ”feeling the need to get out and move your ‘stuff’ around.” That is so accurate! We are like little ants constantly scurrying about having to move “stuff” from one place to another. I got to thinking about this when I was looking around our new apartment and noticed how bare it is. We have no furniture or other “normal” things in our house, yet. All of our furniture and belongings are stuck in shipment. They probably won’t arrive for another two or three months. Yet, we are perfectly happy to just be in our own place. We have food, clothing, shelter, companionship, and our Bibles. Life is great! ……. but, I must admit, a sofa would sure make it a little better.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 5:24 pm on April 5, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #29 – The week before Easter is a national holiday in Paraguay. Most of the stores shut down and many people leave the city for a little get-a-way. We were blessed to be invited to visit the home of one of our brethren who is from Pilar, a city about 5 hours south of Asunción. It was a wonderful few days of rest and relaxation. We visited with friends, went sightseeing around the old city, ate lots of traditional Paraguayan foods, and even had a chance to ride horses. Coming “back home” from our little vacation felt rather surreal because even though we are now living in Paraguay (for the next five years), we haven’t quite gotten over the feeling that this still feels like a vacation. So, it felt like we came home from vacation while we were still gone on vacation????

     

  • Troy Spradlin 8:13 pm on March 31, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #28 – There are three dominant traits in every Paraguayan, (according to some advice given me by one of the local’s who was nice enough to share his thoughts). They have special names for every trait, but I will spare you the lengthy, indigenous Indian vernacular that they apply to it.
    First, there is the “Avoid Any Responsibility” trait. This means that even in the middle of a conversation between two people, if the Paraguayan suddenly feels uncomfortable, he might say, “Are you talking to me?” Second, there is the “Do As Little As Possible” trait. The reasoning is this: why do a job all the way if you can get away with doing less and still get paid? Then finally, there is the “I’m Always First” trait. It doesn’t matter that you were already standing in line, when I am ready to order I will walk in front of you. After hearing these explanations from the kind gentleman, I couldn’t help but think that I am sure I have seen these same characteristics somewhere else. I find it interesting that all of these traits have been in existence in EVERY culture (more in some, less in others) since the beginning of time. They certainly exist in America because I have seen it and dealt with it personally. They are also described in the Bible and God provides the perfect way to help us learn how to remove these traits from their lives. I can only be thankful that I have His Word and wisdom to pass on to my concerned friend.

     

    • Mike Riley 8:25 pm on March 31, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, we have the “Do As Little As Possible” trait right here in the USA. This is one of the reasons why we don’t have many livable wage jobs here in the USA. Companies realize that foreign workers will work harder than whose workers in the USA with less pay.

  • Troy Spradlin 3:27 pm on March 29, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #27 – Weekend activities at the Spradlin household: mowing the lawn, washing clothes, minor household repairs, grocery shopping, fixing dinner, and reading the newspaper. Sunday included a wonderful day of worship and a nap. This may sound like an average American weekend to you, but to us, it was a grand triumph! You see, we have been “in transition” for more than three months, which means we’ve had no place or time to do any of these things. That’s because we had to get here, learn the culture and the language a little bit, find a place to live, then figure out how some of these things are done – in South America! It has taken a considerable effort just to get to this point.
    Part of the culture shock phases are a loss of “tangible anchors,” that is, things that we easily recognize and/or are capable of doing ourselves. When one is thrust into a strange culture, not knowing the language and everything is done differently, or has a different name, it causes one to lose a sense of balance. It becomes difficult to complete the most elementary task because we just don’t know where to start. That is why this past weekend was such a grand triumph for us. We feel we are finally starting to assimilate into South American life. I don´t know how to explain it any better than that within the scale of the culture shock progress, but I can tell you this, it has made a world of difference for my own psyche!

     

    • Mike Riley 6:07 pm on March 29, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, I can only imagine what you and your family are going through adjusting to a different culture and mindset. I experienced some of that “culture shock” when I was stationed in Okinawa and England during my four years in the US Air Force. I can tell you that when I returned to the USA, landing at Newark, New Jersey, I literally kissed the tarmac After being on foreign soil for any length of time, there’s nothing like the feeling of returning to the good old USA.

  • Troy Spradlin 3:39 pm on March 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #26 – Little victories are what I live for. Being handicapped by a language barrier creates many limits. But, every time I complete a small transaction or carry on a conversation with a stranger, it becomes a little “victory” for me. It gives me a sense of accomplishment and that I am making headway. The other day, I was so happy to have completed a transaction to have a mailbox made for my front gate. I explained what I wanted, negotiated the price, chatted about the weather for a minute, then said “Gracias.” The little man looked at me afterward with a puzzled look and said, (in Spanish) “Are you a North American?” I still can’t figure out what gave me away.

     

    • J. Randal Matheny 5:02 pm on March 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Imagine that! That he’d harbor any doubts. I once had a guy come up to me in a store while I was looking at an item on the shelf, not speaking a word, and ask me, “You’re not Brazilian, are you?” I still don’t know what he wanted. :)

  • Troy Spradlin 7:25 pm on March 19, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #25 – Exactly what is my job? I have been struggling with that question for several weeks now. You see, I like to stay busy. It is a thrill for me to mark something off my “to do” list. I love having a project to work on. I have a sense of needing to accomplish something everyday to feel like … well, that I accomplished something. I love being a servant in the Lord’s kingdom. There is much to do! But here lately, my “job” feels rather ambiguous. I can’t operate on quite the same level as I did in the States because in Paraguay I am handicapped by a language barrier. Over and over I have been told, “Your job, right now, is to simply learn the language and the culture.” So, my “to do” list consists of: 1) language study in the morning; 2) talk with, walk with, listen to, and observe the people with whom I come in to contact; 3) repeat. OK … I feel better now that I have a list.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 6:18 pm on March 15, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #24 – How to accelerate learning the language? Jump in head first! My wife and I went to purchase some household items at the local “Target” (not really a Target, that’s just what we like to call it) and I asked if there was a salesperson who spoke English. What was I thinking? Of course there wasn’t anyone available! So, I asked for a little patience and proceeded with my best use of Spanish to date. I managed to communicate which models we desired, request delivery of the items, and navigate through all the technical language. Que soprenza! I completed the transaction without losing everything in my wallet or offending anyone (at least I think so)! It was a fun little “victory” for me. Now, if I can just figure out the menu in the restaurant ……..

     

  • Troy Spradlin 4:10 pm on March 12, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #23 – We just completed a team workshop to help us develop better during the current transitions taking place here in Paraguay. It’s interesting how the Lord works, because looking back, I can’t help but think that this workshop couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. It was just the thing many of us needed, (especially for me in light of my recent mindset). It really helped us to identify the best method for dealing with our struggles while continuing to move forward. I feel like I know myself and my team mates better than ever before. The experience of moving to another country has been so unique in so many ways and I haven’t even begun to reach the tip of the iceberg …… I can’t wait to see what happens next.

     

    • Mike Riley 6:51 pm on March 12, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, teamwork is the key to any successful venture, including spreading the gospel. May the Lord richly bless your team toward that effort!

  • Troy Spradlin 1:21 am on March 11, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    .Journal Entry #22 – I am in a much different place today than I was this time last week. No, I am not referring to my physical local, but instead, my frame of mind. You see, last week I was robbed. Someone broke into our car and stole my backpack. It had my laptop, my Passport, a video camera, and (most important to me) my study Bible from preaching school. Of the few possessions I brought with me to Paraguay, the things that were stolen were the most precious to me. I find that rather ironic and now I am considering that it may have been a blessing in disguise that I was robbed. Why? Because that experience taught me how vulnerable I am at any moment. It taught me that earthly possessions are just that, earthly possessions. People are much more precious. It forced me to recognize the environment and situation in which I am now working with a greater sense of reality. It helped me to see something about myself that I never knew before. It demonstrated to me the true meaning of James 1:2-3. Yes, this is a different place for me. God is good.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 8:45 pm on March 2, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #21 – Smells. One of the first things many people notice about being in a foreign country are the various odors and fragrances. The majority of the smells are new and unusual to the recipient. Paraguay is no exception to the rule. The predominate smell? Diesel smoke. Almost every vehicle here operates with diesel and they all belch thick, black fumes of expended petroleum. It leaves a persistent film of dark dust on the surface of everything around. A different smell, that is present, are the deodorants, soaps, and cleaning supplies. They all have a different fragrance to them than those found in the US. Various foods here have unique smells that are foreign to the senses of any “Norte Americano.” The most fascinating thing about smells for me, however, is the permanency of the impression they make upon our memories. After a person is back in their home environment, and then later has a chance encounter with one of those foreign smells, it’s amazing how quickly a flood of memories can come rushing in with remarkable detail. It serves as a “snap shot” from a very different perspective. Truly remarkable!

     

    • jimnewy 1:50 am on March 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      I can relate to what you wrote here. When I used to travel to Stockholm and Tokyo I noticed the change in familiar smells. I also noticed the change is taste. Different cultures use different sauces, for instance. With a sauce there is also a smell before the taste. They are distinct and memorable.

      • joyjensen 4:52 am on March 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply

        Oh how wonderful to catch the scent of deodorants, soaps, and cleaning supplies. :) The majority of Tanzanians do not use deodorant – it’s expensive. Soap – not used as often as preferred – many still must haul water in five gallon buckets on their head, so daily bathing is tough. Cleaning supplies – oh how I would love to smell some when using the facilities in many places (aka outhouse). :)

  • Troy Spradlin 11:16 pm on February 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #20 – I am simply not used to doing business like this. I am certainly not used to expending large amounts of money in one month. I keep having to tell myself, “We raised the funds and we budgeted for this … we budgeted for this. It’s OK, it’s OK.” In order to get settled in, we are having to purchase things like a car, pay deposits on a rental duplex, install air conditioners and security systems, purchase major appliances, and set up insurance coverage for health, car, and property. In one month, I have spent a ton of money. I don’t think anyone really LIKES to dispense large sums of money. Add to the discomfort that everything is being paid for in cash. Paraguayan guarani cash to be exact. One US dollar is equal to about 4700 guaranies, so 1 MILLION guaranies is equal to about $200 in US currency. The things I have been paying for cost millions upon millions of guaranies. Yes, it takes my breath away to think of it in those kind of numbers. But, on the bright side … I guess I can truthfully say that I am a “millionaire” (depending on which currency you choose)!

     

  • Troy Spradlin 10:58 pm on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #19 – I hate to admit it, but I believe I have already experienced the first effects of culture shock. The first stage is appropriately called the “Honeymoon Stage” where everything is new and exciting. (Done that). The next phase is called the “Anger Stage” where the new has worn off and everything becomes annoying. This is a result of allowing cultural differences in everyday activities to become annoying, or aggravating. I believe I am experiencing a little of both, simultaneously. The source of my problem: contract “negotiations” for our rental duplex, my car keeps breaking down, paying fees for this, paying fees for that, plus a language barrier in a society that is, well, quite frankly, SLOWER than I am used to. All of this has finally taken its toll on my patience. I have officially been labeled “moody” by my team mates. That was my clue – “culture shock stage two … commencing … now!” Thankfully, I have some really patient team mates and a supportive wife who are helping me cope with this stage. I am praying fervently for patience and understanding. I know the Lord will provide if I just lean on Him.

     

  • Troy Spradlin 8:05 pm on February 22, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Journal Entry #18 – Yesterday, I wrote about being thankful for my experienced team mates. Today, I am thankful for email and other electronic media that provide a platform for worldwide communication. For example, I am grateful for the opportunity to write for “The Fellowship Room” – made possible by modern technology. I am grateful for the social websites, blogs, and instant messaging (which, by the way, was the only way we were able communicate with our families when we were stranded in Bolivia), that allow me to give updates to all those who are interested in our work and well being. I am reminded that not so long ago, it was difficult for missionaries to communicate with their supporters and loved ones back in the States. Today, I called my parents on their cell phone from my laptop. Blessings often come in small packages.

     

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