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  • J. Randal Matheny 3:35 pm on March 6, 2012 Permalink | Reply
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    ‘All donors have agendas’ 

    missions“All donors have agendas,” writes Patrick Brennan. And so they do. No one gives money without seeking some return, some benefit, some recompense. It may come in the form of mere satisfaction at helping another, with no strings attached. Or the donor may seek influence, power, manipulation. And who hasn’t bought something just to get rid of the seller, the return being the restoration of peace?

    Beyond the small amounts and the small returns, donors usually seek to further their own vision of how the world should work. And how the recipient ought to work. This principle is true of churches as well.

    Some churches have the Lord’s agenda of teaching the gospel of truth to the lost. But sometimes that agenda is soft, subject to budgets, elder or preacher projects, or majority wishes. Even then, mission funds can serve to assuage guilty consciences or be a badge of a successful church worn on the front page of the weekly bulletin.

    Then again, more and more churches with businessmen for elders are looking for more bang for the buck, more baptisms per dollar. You dunk the natives, and they’ll plunk down the bills. Not a few mercenaries play that game with the calculating churches.

    Some missionaries, in a rush to the field and in a crunch for funds, accept support from progressive churches, thinking that their money won’t talk or make demands. But if anyone has an agenda, it is progressives.

    Some years back, one missionary wife confessed that she and her husband were concerned that their new sponsoring church was more liberal in some areas than they were. She didn’t know how they were going to deal with that.

    They dealt with it by allowing liberal doctrine to influence them, so that today their congregation is the most liberal in the country and pushing progressive ideas among the churches. How liberal? Recently, people were dancing in the aisles during the Lord’s supper.

    All donors have agendas. So they contribute to support-seekers, drop others along the way, until their funds find the field and the personnel that matches their vision.

    The challenge in all this is for churches and missionaries who have Jesus as Lord of the mission to find each other.

    For the greatest Donor of all has his agenda, too: the salvation of the world and eternal life for all, through the proclamation of the gospel of God.

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    • Mike Riley 6:40 pm on March 6, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Randal, I really appreciate your article about “Why the church stops growing.” I agree 100% about not investing in church buildings as well as training future preachers “in-house” instead of sending them to preaching schools. Churches of Christ used to do that many eons ago, but I guess progress got in the way! (:

    • Joe Palmer 9:45 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      While I don’t disagree. I find it funny that you not only a progressive church having an agenda. Conservative ones do too, and perhaps not all their beliefs are right either. One of the things ministers have to deal with is the marriage of the minister/missionary and the congregation. Being a minister is not like going to look for a job at a factory or a bank. You have to consider does this leadership reflect my beliefs? Will they allow me to teach what I believe. Recently I went into an elders meeting and declared I was going to preach on a particular subject. I was prepared to resign if they told me no. Fortunately for me they accepted me teaching on the subject despite the fact that we all didn’t agree on it.

      • J. Randal Matheny 9:48 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Joe, how did you miss my point? The whole article states that all donors have agendas, whether they be right or wrong.

    • Joe Palmer 10:21 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I didn’t miss your point. I just took special note of this sentence. “Some missionaries, in a rush to the field and in a crunch for funds, accept support from progressive churches, thinking that their money won’t talk or make demands. But if anyone has an agenda, it is progressives.”

      You singled out progressives as more so than conservatives to have agendas. Labels are always tricky. I am progressive in some areas and conservative in others. If you are to the left of me I am conservative and to the right I am a progressive. My church was recently questioned by a potential member because a more conservative congregation had made him afraid of us. We allegedly had 30 year old elders. The reality is that church chooses not to have a kitchen or eat in the building so we are progressives to them. Some of my members aren’t comfortable with another church who uses members who are miked to help improve the singing. They are to some progressives.

      I don’t think I missed your point, and I do agree with it. I just think your example displayed some of the ways that you think. Not that it is wrong. We all have to be aware of our own bias. I have mine too.

      I was thinking this morning of writing an article, “Should we Change Beliefs?” Perhaps you will let me share it on here. It is really a discussion of if and when we should change beliefs and the reality that all of us have beliefs that need changed even if we don’t recognize them, because none of us can possibly be 100% right.

      • J. Randal Matheny 10:29 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        The paragraphs above the one the sentence you mentioned refer to all churches. Perhaps you’re not aware of it, but progressives in the sense it’s being used today refer to those who basically discard doctrine of any kind. And they are agressively spreading their own doctrine of non-doctrines among us. They’ve called themselves change agents for years. So I don’t accept that I have an unhealthy bias for pointing them out specifically.

        If you write your article, send it to me, and we’ll look at it. Obviously, we don’t agree to publish material unseen.

      • Eugene Adkins 9:25 pm on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Hello Joe,

        This is a little of topic from the original post so I was going to send you a private email but I could not find one attached to your avatar so I decided to ask you a couple questions in this forum; that is, if you would not mind answering them.

        One – When you said, “Some of my members aren’t comfortable with another church who uses members who are miked to help improve the singing” what exactly do you mean when you say “improve” the singing?

        I ask this sincerely because I have heard of other things being done/introduced into worship services on the basis of it “improving” the worship before, so I was wondering how exactly does this “improve” one’s worship, or are you looking at the “miked up singers” solely as a “singing improvement” as you originally stated?

        Two – Who is this “improvement” meant to benefit?

        Thanks for your time if you chose to reply.

    • Joe Palmer 11:30 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I am not aware of people labeling themselves as change agents. I am aware of people labeling others as change agent and I agree that some are. Perhaps I am uninformed in that I didn’t know we had such a precise definition of progressives. I hear people use it to describe anyone more liberal than they are.

      • J. Randal Matheny 11:32 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Progressives is a self-applied label of those who want to change radically what is taught in the church. Yup.

  • Richard Mansel 7:14 am on March 12, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Technology Makes the World Smaller 

    Michael Brooks’ article this morning at Forthright coalesced nicely with what was on my mind. Michael wrote about his travels to Asia for mission trips.

    He wrote:

    It is more than 10,000 miles by air from my home in Alabama to South Asia, to where I have traveled this past week. There is twelve hours difference (twelve time zones) between Alabama time and Bangladesh time. In other words they are exactly on opposite sides of the earth.

    Jet lag is a concept with which I am very familiar. After flying for about 26 hours of actual time in the air over an elapsed total time of 36 to 42 hours on average, I am always tired and physically confused. My mind may say “It is morning, let’s get to work.” My body however responds, “I am tired; it is time to sleep.”


    I remember my second trip home from New Zealand. We left Wellington at 3:00 PM on Friday afternoon. We landed in Memphis on Friday night at 9:00 PM. That was such a strange experience! You fly around the world and it is actually only a few hours later because of the international date line.

    Of course, it may have only been six hours later, in one respect, to my body it seemed to be several days. I was exhausted.

    (More …)

     
    • Mike Riley 10:39 am on March 12, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      Jet lag does make one very tired. I experienced the same when I was in the US Air Force flying to Okinawa. Upon my return to the states, I slept for three days, only waking long enough to eat something.

  • Richard Mansel 8:56 am on September 11, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    A Missionary Perspective on Burning Qurans 

    Mike Brooks is a missionary in a Muslim country. He shares his perspective on the plans that people in the United States have to burn Qurans. He writes that we should offer the gospel and love, rather than bombs and fires. Read his excellent thoughts.

     
  • Richard Mansel 5:16 pm on June 13, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Preaching News 

    Our VBS begins tomorrow. We are using the Lambert system. They have five lessons and we have four nights. So, I preach the adult lesson that will not be covered on the Sunday morning prior to the beginning of VBS. This year it was Honesty.

    I have joined SlideShare and I am adding PowerPoint sermons to my blog. I hope you find them edifying.

    Tonight, we have a rare treat. Todd O’ Donnell, missionary in New Zealand, is visiting American congregations that have supported him in his work. He and his family will be here tonight. I have known Todd’s brother and sister-in-law for seventeen years and I have met his parents. It will be a joy to finally meet Todd and his family. I’m excited about tonight.

    Praying for Randal’s safe return home.

     
    • Ron 5:29 pm on June 13, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      I know Todd; he and I were students together in Knoxville (ETSOP).

    • joyjensen 5:37 pm on June 13, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Please, please tell the O’Donnells hello from the Jensens. We know them well and are sad our paths will not be able to cross when we are in the states.

    • Barbara Ann Oliver 7:57 pm on June 13, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Hi Richard,
      Please tell Todd that I said hi. “GO ALL BLACKS!!”

  • Troy Spradlin 8:25 pm on May 24, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #44 – Paraguay just celebrated her 199th anniversary of independence from Spain. Their were celebrations, parades, and festivities all throughout the capital city of Asunción. Even many foreign dignitaries flew into the country just to participate in the events. Everywhere one might look there were patriotic colors, flags, and emblems proudly displayed in order to support the national holiday. Almost everyone was wearing some sort of pin, shirt, or hat that exhibited their national pride. Oh what a sight to behold … and it wasn’t even the BIG celebration, yet! That will be next year for their bi-centennial. I haven’t seen this kind of patriotism since America celebrated her own independence in 1976. (By the way, I was just a mere child, but I still remember). Now consider this, how marvelous would it be if Christians were to display their identity with such enthusiasm? No, we wouldn’t use flags, buttons, or t-shirts which could fade away. Instead, we would simply exhibit our identity in the way Christ commanded us, by showing our love toward one another (John 13:35). What a celebration that would be!

     
  • Troy Spradlin 6:44 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #42 – Where there is smoke there must be fire. Living in a third world country presents its unique expressions every day. For example, it is not uncommon to encounter someone who always smells like smoke, (not cigarette smoke, but rather, firewood smoke). It can happen on the bus, in the grocery store, at a soccer game, or even during worship. The reason is, many people in Paraguay do not have central heat and air in their homes, nor do they have a stove-top oven in their kitchens. Quite often, their only means of warmth during the winter is to build a fire. Most of the time, they must also do their cooking by building a small fire. Thus, they always smell like smoke. With just one quick whiff, it is possible to discern the lifestyle of another. Our Christian lives should be the same way, in many regards. Just as one can recognize that the smell of smoke is the result of being near fire, do our actions and words reflect the results of living a Christ centered life?

     
    • Steve 7:10 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, I’m a fairly new follower of the fellowship room and just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your posts. It allows us to not only see life in a foreign country, but also the joys and challenges of taking the Gospel to all the world! I occassionally share your comments with those who attend my Wed. Bible class. Our greatest takeaway so far: may we never take even the smallest joys for granted, but thank God that he has so bountifully provided!

    • Tina Cutsinger 9:53 pm on May 14, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Great analogy Troy!

  • Troy Spradlin 8:04 pm on May 10, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #41 – Time to take my pulse in the culture shock process. We have been here for three months now and quite frankly, I am not quite sure where I fit in the different stages. The “Honeymoon Stage” seems to have worn off, but many things are still new and fascinating to me. The “Anger Stage” is next and although I have had my moments, I certainly don’t feel angry. That stage is followed by the “Superiority Stage.” Yes, I do feel that North Americans do many things better, but the South Americans certainly have us beat on several fronts. Does this mean I have already arrived at the “Acceptance Stage”? That can’t be, I just haven’t been here long enough. Perhaps I am not giving myself enough time to allow each of these various stages to manifest themselves more precisely. Yet, I feel am certainly growing more accustomed to my surroundings. I am more comfortable with the language. I also believe I am beginning to understand the culture and its people much better. Regardless of how I feel, however, there is one thing that I have definitely learned, everyday that I am here I see there is a greater amount of work to do in Paraguay. Souls are at risk and the clock is ticking faster …..

     
  • Troy Spradlin 6:07 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #39 – Citizenship. In Paraguay, there is one thing that is of the utmost importance, it is called a “Cedula.” It is important because without it, it is very difficult to get through the random police checks, open a simple bank account, sign a legal document, or remain in the country without having to leave every 90 days. The Cedula is the Paraguayan citizenship card. Foreigners can acquire a “resident” version, but it takes a very long time, involves a difficult process, and it requires a substantial amount of money. Being exposed to this as a foreigner in this country, I believe I now have a much better understanding as to what Paul was referring to in Philippians 3:20. As a Jewish descendant, Paul had unique citizenship in the Roman empire (cf Acts 22:22-29), but he valued his citizenship in heaven much more.

     
    • J. Randal Matheny 11:20 pm on May 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Took us 3-4 years here to get our permanent visa and a lot of hoops. One thing that helped us was having a child while we were in the process. We were able to abbreviate it by applying for permanent residency on the basis of having a Brazilian child. Don’t know if Paraguay has anything similar.

  • Troy Spradlin 7:02 pm on April 22, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #36 – How do others see me? I have heard the saying many times, “The only sermon some people may hear is the one they see in the way you live your life.” I have also learned that being a Christian is not just a name that we wear, but it is something that we DO. This has never been more true to me than right now. In the mission field, I am not able to speak the language as well as I would like, but that doesn’t stop me from keeping busy serving others. How does this effect the way others view me? What stops any us from going to every study or function offered with the congregation? What’s to stop us from working in the kitchen at a church retreat or assisting others at a VBS? Or, when we go about our daily lives in the grocery store, the bank, or any place that we may find ourselves, do we act the way a Christian should act? There are many who may not be preaching from a pulpit in a church building, but we should all pray that our actions speak louder in the pulpit of our lives.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 7:48 pm on April 20, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #35 – Video conference calls are such a wonderful blessing! The preacher at our sponsoring congregation got the idea to have a video conference call just before services on a Wednesday night and connect the computer to the auditorium projector. He said that when our faces appeared on the screen “live” from Paraguay, that there were gasps, clapping, and tears shed. People were filing into the auditorium and a buzz of excitement was in the air. We were able to say, “Hello” to everyone back home and also see them on our computer screen. A few of our brethren asked us questions and we got to express how much we loved them, appreciated them, and missed them. That call brought a great deal of joy to the brethren of our sponsoring congregation, not to mention, that Andrea and I didn’t stop smiling for two days from the joy it brought us.

     
    • Mike Riley 7:55 pm on April 20, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      This is great, Troy! This is just one example of technology being used for good. New technology is making our world smaller and smaller.

    • Tina Cutsinger 8:04 pm on April 20, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      That is wonderful! I don’t know you Troy, but that was an uplifting post. May God bless you and your family. In christian love. Tina Cutsinger

    • Richard Hill 1:30 am on April 21, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      That’s cool!

  • Troy Spradlin 7:06 pm on April 19, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #34 – This past weekend we had a congregational retreat. We rented a little campground about 45 minutes outside the city that is maintained by a Korean denominational group. We spent two days singing, studying, worshiping, and fellow-shipping. This was my first experience with a church campground setting in a foreign country. It was wonderful! The entire weekend, I couldn’t help but think how thrilling it is to see God’s word working in the lives of the Paraguayans in the exact same way I am accustomed to seeing in the States. In reality, it doesn’t matter on what continent one may stand, God’s word touches hearts in any culture. The best part – going to camp “rejuvinated my spiritual batteries” even if it was in a different language!

     
  • Troy Spradlin 2:16 pm on April 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #33 – There are many cultural crossroads. One simple question within this context is, “What are you?” Are you an American first, or, are you a Christian first? In other words, do you place your citizenship as an American before your citizenship in heaven? What takes priority in your decision making process? There are many Christians who get this fundamental principle confused. Yes, the Bible says we are to be responsible citizens (Romans 13), but, it also says that we are a peculiar people, set apart from the world (1 Peter 2:9). Therefore, we need to make life decisions based upon how it will effect our citizenship in heaven, FIRST.
    This is not just an American problem. We have experienced this same problem here in Paraguay. One of the dominant threads running through the fabric of Paraguayan society is the “who you know” aspect. Our brethren will sometimes make decisions based upon how it will reflect upon them in society – even if it is contrary to the scriptures. So, the question becomes, “Are you a Paraguayan first, or a Christian first?” How will it effect your eternal destiny? (Acts 5:29)

     
  • Troy Spradlin 5:37 pm on April 12, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #32 – Street kids. One of the things that truly tugs at your heart strings in Asuncion, Paraguay is seeing so many children in the street. Most of them are working on the street corners and the medians. These children are either begging for coins, trying to sell a product or service, (like washing your windshield), or sometimes, they are being used by their parents to get you to give some money. Most of the kids are barefoot and poorly clothed. They stand out in the heat and diesel smoke all day. Paraguay is indeed a poor country and it is difficult for many to earn a living. But, it is truly sad when kids don’t get to be just kids and have to be thrown into a terrible circumstance like working a street median.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 5:14 pm on April 9, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #31 – It brings me to my knees every time. I have been raising funds for more than three years and as anyone who has ever done that will tell you, it is exhausting. There are so many emotions that one goes through that it would probably take a few volumes just to describe it in written word. But, there is one emotion which simply eclipses them all. It is the feeling I get when I receive a phone call or an email telling me that someone (or some congregation) wants to support our work. Yes, I feel happy and have excitement, but first, I am brought me to me knees, overwhelmed with thankfulness. I immediately go to God in prayer thanking Him for what He has provided. I have received a few of these calls and yet, it humbles me every time. I get this strange sensation in the pit of my stomach and then a realization overcomes me that I am just a meek and lowly servant in a vast and marvelous kingdom. I am serving the King of kings. I can only begin to imagine how overwhelmed Peter must have felt when he came face to face of the magnitude of our Lord´s almighty power when he was humbled before Jesus, (Luke 5:4-9).

     
  • Troy Spradlin 3:08 pm on April 7, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #30 – Just the bare necessities: food, clothing, shelter, companions, and the Bible. That’s all anyone REALLY needs. It is amazing how one can be content with so little. (Sounds very Pauline doesn’t it? cf. Phil. 4:11). Yet, we Americans prefer to have lot’s of STUFF. I once heard a weatherman advise people to please wait until after a hurricane had completely passed before ”feeling the need to get out and move your ‘stuff’ around.” That is so accurate! We are like little ants constantly scurrying about having to move “stuff” from one place to another. I got to thinking about this when I was looking around our new apartment and noticed how bare it is. We have no furniture or other “normal” things in our house, yet. All of our furniture and belongings are stuck in shipment. They probably won’t arrive for another two or three months. Yet, we are perfectly happy to just be in our own place. We have food, clothing, shelter, companionship, and our Bibles. Life is great! ……. but, I must admit, a sofa would sure make it a little better.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 5:24 pm on April 5, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #29 – The week before Easter is a national holiday in Paraguay. Most of the stores shut down and many people leave the city for a little get-a-way. We were blessed to be invited to visit the home of one of our brethren who is from Pilar, a city about 5 hours south of Asunción. It was a wonderful few days of rest and relaxation. We visited with friends, went sightseeing around the old city, ate lots of traditional Paraguayan foods, and even had a chance to ride horses. Coming “back home” from our little vacation felt rather surreal because even though we are now living in Paraguay (for the next five years), we haven’t quite gotten over the feeling that this still feels like a vacation. So, it felt like we came home from vacation while we were still gone on vacation????

     
  • Troy Spradlin 8:13 pm on March 31, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #28 – There are three dominant traits in every Paraguayan, (according to some advice given me by one of the local’s who was nice enough to share his thoughts). They have special names for every trait, but I will spare you the lengthy, indigenous Indian vernacular that they apply to it.
    First, there is the “Avoid Any Responsibility” trait. This means that even in the middle of a conversation between two people, if the Paraguayan suddenly feels uncomfortable, he might say, “Are you talking to me?” Second, there is the “Do As Little As Possible” trait. The reasoning is this: why do a job all the way if you can get away with doing less and still get paid? Then finally, there is the “I’m Always First” trait. It doesn’t matter that you were already standing in line, when I am ready to order I will walk in front of you. After hearing these explanations from the kind gentleman, I couldn’t help but think that I am sure I have seen these same characteristics somewhere else. I find it interesting that all of these traits have been in existence in EVERY culture (more in some, less in others) since the beginning of time. They certainly exist in America because I have seen it and dealt with it personally. They are also described in the Bible and God provides the perfect way to help us learn how to remove these traits from their lives. I can only be thankful that I have His Word and wisdom to pass on to my concerned friend.

     
    • Mike Riley 8:25 pm on March 31, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, we have the “Do As Little As Possible” trait right here in the USA. This is one of the reasons why we don’t have many livable wage jobs here in the USA. Companies realize that foreign workers will work harder than whose workers in the USA with less pay.

  • Troy Spradlin 3:27 pm on March 29, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #27 – Weekend activities at the Spradlin household: mowing the lawn, washing clothes, minor household repairs, grocery shopping, fixing dinner, and reading the newspaper. Sunday included a wonderful day of worship and a nap. This may sound like an average American weekend to you, but to us, it was a grand triumph! You see, we have been “in transition” for more than three months, which means we’ve had no place or time to do any of these things. That’s because we had to get here, learn the culture and the language a little bit, find a place to live, then figure out how some of these things are done – in South America! It has taken a considerable effort just to get to this point.
    Part of the culture shock phases are a loss of “tangible anchors,” that is, things that we easily recognize and/or are capable of doing ourselves. When one is thrust into a strange culture, not knowing the language and everything is done differently, or has a different name, it causes one to lose a sense of balance. It becomes difficult to complete the most elementary task because we just don’t know where to start. That is why this past weekend was such a grand triumph for us. We feel we are finally starting to assimilate into South American life. I don´t know how to explain it any better than that within the scale of the culture shock progress, but I can tell you this, it has made a world of difference for my own psyche!

     
    • Mike Riley 6:07 pm on March 29, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, I can only imagine what you and your family are going through adjusting to a different culture and mindset. I experienced some of that “culture shock” when I was stationed in Okinawa and England during my four years in the US Air Force. I can tell you that when I returned to the USA, landing at Newark, New Jersey, I literally kissed the tarmac After being on foreign soil for any length of time, there’s nothing like the feeling of returning to the good old USA.

  • Troy Spradlin 3:39 pm on March 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #26 – Little victories are what I live for. Being handicapped by a language barrier creates many limits. But, every time I complete a small transaction or carry on a conversation with a stranger, it becomes a little “victory” for me. It gives me a sense of accomplishment and that I am making headway. The other day, I was so happy to have completed a transaction to have a mailbox made for my front gate. I explained what I wanted, negotiated the price, chatted about the weather for a minute, then said “Gracias.” The little man looked at me afterward with a puzzled look and said, (in Spanish) “Are you a North American?” I still can’t figure out what gave me away.

     
    • J. Randal Matheny 5:02 pm on March 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Imagine that! That he’d harbor any doubts. I once had a guy come up to me in a store while I was looking at an item on the shelf, not speaking a word, and ask me, “You’re not Brazilian, are you?” I still don’t know what he wanted. :)

  • Troy Spradlin 7:25 pm on March 19, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #25 – Exactly what is my job? I have been struggling with that question for several weeks now. You see, I like to stay busy. It is a thrill for me to mark something off my “to do” list. I love having a project to work on. I have a sense of needing to accomplish something everyday to feel like … well, that I accomplished something. I love being a servant in the Lord’s kingdom. There is much to do! But here lately, my “job” feels rather ambiguous. I can’t operate on quite the same level as I did in the States because in Paraguay I am handicapped by a language barrier. Over and over I have been told, “Your job, right now, is to simply learn the language and the culture.” So, my “to do” list consists of: 1) language study in the morning; 2) talk with, walk with, listen to, and observe the people with whom I come in to contact; 3) repeat. OK … I feel better now that I have a list.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 6:18 pm on March 15, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #24 – How to accelerate learning the language? Jump in head first! My wife and I went to purchase some household items at the local “Target” (not really a Target, that’s just what we like to call it) and I asked if there was a salesperson who spoke English. What was I thinking? Of course there wasn’t anyone available! So, I asked for a little patience and proceeded with my best use of Spanish to date. I managed to communicate which models we desired, request delivery of the items, and navigate through all the technical language. Que soprenza! I completed the transaction without losing everything in my wallet or offending anyone (at least I think so)! It was a fun little “victory” for me. Now, if I can just figure out the menu in the restaurant ……..

     
  • Troy Spradlin 4:10 pm on March 12, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #23 – We just completed a team workshop to help us develop better during the current transitions taking place here in Paraguay. It’s interesting how the Lord works, because looking back, I can’t help but think that this workshop couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. It was just the thing many of us needed, (especially for me in light of my recent mindset). It really helped us to identify the best method for dealing with our struggles while continuing to move forward. I feel like I know myself and my team mates better than ever before. The experience of moving to another country has been so unique in so many ways and I haven’t even begun to reach the tip of the iceberg …… I can’t wait to see what happens next.

     
    • Mike Riley 6:51 pm on March 12, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, teamwork is the key to any successful venture, including spreading the gospel. May the Lord richly bless your team toward that effort!

  • Troy Spradlin 1:21 am on March 11, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    .Journal Entry #22 – I am in a much different place today than I was this time last week. No, I am not referring to my physical local, but instead, my frame of mind. You see, last week I was robbed. Someone broke into our car and stole my backpack. It had my laptop, my Passport, a video camera, and (most important to me) my study Bible from preaching school. Of the few possessions I brought with me to Paraguay, the things that were stolen were the most precious to me. I find that rather ironic and now I am considering that it may have been a blessing in disguise that I was robbed. Why? Because that experience taught me how vulnerable I am at any moment. It taught me that earthly possessions are just that, earthly possessions. People are much more precious. It forced me to recognize the environment and situation in which I am now working with a greater sense of reality. It helped me to see something about myself that I never knew before. It demonstrated to me the true meaning of James 1:2-3. Yes, this is a different place for me. God is good.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 8:45 pm on March 2, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #21 – Smells. One of the first things many people notice about being in a foreign country are the various odors and fragrances. The majority of the smells are new and unusual to the recipient. Paraguay is no exception to the rule. The predominate smell? Diesel smoke. Almost every vehicle here operates with diesel and they all belch thick, black fumes of expended petroleum. It leaves a persistent film of dark dust on the surface of everything around. A different smell, that is present, are the deodorants, soaps, and cleaning supplies. They all have a different fragrance to them than those found in the US. Various foods here have unique smells that are foreign to the senses of any “Norte Americano.” The most fascinating thing about smells for me, however, is the permanency of the impression they make upon our memories. After a person is back in their home environment, and then later has a chance encounter with one of those foreign smells, it’s amazing how quickly a flood of memories can come rushing in with remarkable detail. It serves as a “snap shot” from a very different perspective. Truly remarkable!

     
    • jimnewy 1:50 am on March 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      I can relate to what you wrote here. When I used to travel to Stockholm and Tokyo I noticed the change in familiar smells. I also noticed the change is taste. Different cultures use different sauces, for instance. With a sauce there is also a smell before the taste. They are distinct and memorable.

      • joyjensen 4:52 am on March 3, 2010 Permalink | Reply

        Oh how wonderful to catch the scent of deodorants, soaps, and cleaning supplies. :) The majority of Tanzanians do not use deodorant – it’s expensive. Soap – not used as often as preferred – many still must haul water in five gallon buckets on their head, so daily bathing is tough. Cleaning supplies – oh how I would love to smell some when using the facilities in many places (aka outhouse). :)

  • Troy Spradlin 11:16 pm on February 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #20 – I am simply not used to doing business like this. I am certainly not used to expending large amounts of money in one month. I keep having to tell myself, “We raised the funds and we budgeted for this … we budgeted for this. It’s OK, it’s OK.” In order to get settled in, we are having to purchase things like a car, pay deposits on a rental duplex, install air conditioners and security systems, purchase major appliances, and set up insurance coverage for health, car, and property. In one month, I have spent a ton of money. I don’t think anyone really LIKES to dispense large sums of money. Add to the discomfort that everything is being paid for in cash. Paraguayan guarani cash to be exact. One US dollar is equal to about 4700 guaranies, so 1 MILLION guaranies is equal to about $200 in US currency. The things I have been paying for cost millions upon millions of guaranies. Yes, it takes my breath away to think of it in those kind of numbers. But, on the bright side … I guess I can truthfully say that I am a “millionaire” (depending on which currency you choose)!

     
  • Troy Spradlin 10:58 pm on February 24, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #19 – I hate to admit it, but I believe I have already experienced the first effects of culture shock. The first stage is appropriately called the “Honeymoon Stage” where everything is new and exciting. (Done that). The next phase is called the “Anger Stage” where the new has worn off and everything becomes annoying. This is a result of allowing cultural differences in everyday activities to become annoying, or aggravating. I believe I am experiencing a little of both, simultaneously. The source of my problem: contract “negotiations” for our rental duplex, my car keeps breaking down, paying fees for this, paying fees for that, plus a language barrier in a society that is, well, quite frankly, SLOWER than I am used to. All of this has finally taken its toll on my patience. I have officially been labeled “moody” by my team mates. That was my clue – “culture shock stage two … commencing … now!” Thankfully, I have some really patient team mates and a supportive wife who are helping me cope with this stage. I am praying fervently for patience and understanding. I know the Lord will provide if I just lean on Him.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 8:05 pm on February 22, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #18 – Yesterday, I wrote about being thankful for my experienced team mates. Today, I am thankful for email and other electronic media that provide a platform for worldwide communication. For example, I am grateful for the opportunity to write for “The Fellowship Room” – made possible by modern technology. I am grateful for the social websites, blogs, and instant messaging (which, by the way, was the only way we were able communicate with our families when we were stranded in Bolivia), that allow me to give updates to all those who are interested in our work and well being. I am reminded that not so long ago, it was difficult for missionaries to communicate with their supporters and loved ones back in the States. Today, I called my parents on their cell phone from my laptop. Blessings often come in small packages.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 7:32 pm on February 21, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #17 – I am so thankful for my team mates who already have mission and cultural experience here in Paraguay. I can’t even begin to imagine how difficult it must have been to get acclimated when they first arrived here. We have had the blessing of their help in getting our housing set up, negotiating contracts, securing various services, and doing the like. It has allowed us to expedite the process by a large degree. It would be extremely difficult trying to accomplish all this without their assistance. In the meantime, they are continuing to progress with the work while we “new arrivals” get acclimated with the language and culture. Once we are up to speed and have been “grafted” into the congregation, then we will assume several responsibilities. Eventually the original team members will return to the states and the rest of us will continue on. They planted, we will water, and from there, God gives the increase.

     
    • Mike Riley 8:55 pm on February 21, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, this is exactly what Christianity is all about – brothers and sisters in Christ helping other brothers and sisters in Christ, that the church might continue to grow and prosper. May the Lord continue to strengthen the team as you proclaim the saving gospel in that area.

  • Troy Spradlin 9:30 pm on February 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #15 – Mental gymnastics. That is a fairly accurate way to describe my daily thought processes. By the time I get to the house in the evenings, I am completely exhausted. I believe it is a result of a combination of things. Things like the intense Paraguayan heat, having to deal with a completely different environment, straining to speak in a foreign language, plus the considerable amount of learning required to familiarize myself with a new ministry. As the day progresses, I can feel the neurons within my brain twisting and contorting in order to accommodate the inordinate amount of requests to which it has been subjected.

     
    • joyjensen 7:16 am on February 18, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      We can definitely relate! It will get better. Some of the challenges will never go away, but you will learn to adapt. It’s important to plan some occasional downtime for you and your family, because the days do wear on you, much more so than in the states. Sounds like you all are doing great! Do you have a website or blog?

    • troyspradlin 5:26 pm on February 18, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Thank you for your comments!
      Yes, ma’am. We do, indeed, have a little web presence at:

      http://thespradlins.blogspot.com and at: http://www.paraguaymission.org

  • Mike Riley 3:50 pm on February 2, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    What development in the church encourages me most? I’m greatly encouraged by the number of congregations who are putting their Bible-related materials online, both in audio, http://mbriley.preachersfiles.com/audio-sermons/, and in video: http://mbriley.preachersfiles.com/video-sermons/.

    On my Bible study blog alone, I’ve listed many congregations who offer Bible study courses online, have Bible study resource sites, advertise their upcoming lectureships, list the various news events in the brotherhood. There are evangelism sites maintained by the church, that are helping evangelize the world for Christ. There are mission efforts around the world that have websites online, for members to contribute to those efforts. We have schools of preaching that are online, for any man interested in preparing himself for full time ministry. An individual can even go online and get the same Bible-related material as one would get at a two-year preaching school: http://www.oabs.org/. They can acquire low-cost video teaching tapes of every book in the Bible: http://wvbs.org/home.cfm

    The list is endless.

    Brethren, the teaching potential in using the Internet, is virtually limitless. At a very minimal cost to the church, we can do today, what it used to cost thousands of dollars to do just a few years ago. Just in publishing costs alone, many dollars have been saved by using the Internet. Those extra dollars saved can and should go to other missionary efforts at home and abroad.

    For example, every Bible topic that the Bible classes at Montana Street have studied, has come from written material, either by me or other members of the congregation, saving the congregation a great deal of money that can be used in other areas of service.

    Brethren, there’s no question in my mind that we can take the gospel to the whole world, as our Lord commanded us to do (Matthew 28:19-20; Mark 16:15-16): http://mbriley.preachersfiles.com/2009/12/20/winning-one-soul-to-christ-in-2010-%E2%80%94-we-can-do-it/. We have the resources – It’s just a matter of our being willing to do it (2 Corinthians 8:1-5).

    We need to remember that we’ll be judged on our stewardship of the resources that God has so richly provided us with (Luke 16:1-12; cf. Luke 12:42-48).

     
  • Troy Spradlin 2:06 am on January 30, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #6 – We’re sitting in the food court at the Miami International airport amazed at how we were able to contain our lives within 62 linear inches and 70 lbs x 2. We were concerned that we would not be able to get everything into our luggage and remain within the specified limits, but, we did. I don’t know if I feel relieved, stressed, or what. “Surreal” would be a good word for the emotions we are feeling right now. Lord willing, this time tomorrow night I will be updating you from the field. Adios, hermanos!

     
  • Troy Spradlin 3:21 am on January 28, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #4 – Tonight, I can’t help but reflect upon what I believe to be God’s providence. This realization has manifested itself through the writing of many “thank you” cards to the multitude of supporters with whom we have been blessed. Now, I understand that we have no way of knowing exactly what is God’s providence and what is not, but I do believe that God’s hand has been involved in our efforts. I say this, because I am happy to report that we have hit every one of our targets and met all the goals we set out to achieve. We are fully funded and have completed all the preparation that we possibly could. That is why I am writing thank you cards! God’s providence? Sure appears that way.

     
    • Randal Matheny 1:42 pm on January 28, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Glad to hear that all goals have been met, Troy. I’ve often had a sense of God’s care and providence, coming at just the right time.

      Godspeed.

  • Troy Spradlin 3:26 am on January 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #3 – Only a couple of days remain before my wife and I depart for Asunción, Paraguay. I am feeling a bit “nervited” – that is, nervous, yet equally excited. The only thing left to do on our once mountainous check list is to go to the Paraguayan consulate’s office to have some papers legalized. This is supposed to assist us in the immigration process of obtaining legal residency. We’ll see. On a different note, we learned that our shipping container with all of our household possessions has been delayed due to the relief efforts in Haiti. Considering the circumstances our brethren are facing in their dark hour, I am perfectly fine with waiting as long as it takes.

     
    • Mike Riley 2:13 pm on January 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Troy, we pray for you and your wife’s safe journey, as well as much success with the work in Paraguay. We are always appreciative of those men and women who dedicate their lives to the mission field in working for the Lord

      May the Lord raise up more such dedicated folks!
      .

      • Troy Spradlin 6:50 pm on January 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

        Thank you very much, Mike!

    • Daniel Haynes 2:20 pm on January 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      God bless!

    • Weylan Deaver 3:24 pm on January 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Is that you, Troy?

    • Troy Spradlin 6:52 pm on January 27, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Thank you, Mike!

      Yes, Weylan … tis I, the same Troy you know from Austin, TX.
      Don’t forget, you introduced me to Randal !!

  • Troy Spradlin 4:07 am on January 26, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #2 – TEAR JERKERS. That’s what they call them. Andrea and I have experienced a few of these recently. The “sending off” accolades and accompanying finger food festivities offered by our sponsoring congregation and some other supporting congregations have produced a steady flow of teardrops. I know they are happy tears but they are also mixed with the sadness that comes from having to say “goodbye” to so many dear loved ones. We will truly miss them. For three years, we have been preparing to enter the mission field. No amount of preparation could have prepared us for those moments.

     
  • Troy Spradlin 4:02 am on January 25, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Culture Shock Chronicles 

    Journal Entry #1 – While preparing for the mission field, there have been numerous occasions where amiable brethren have advised me to prepare for culture shock. I have since learned there are various levels to this state of “dis-ease” and that a myriad of factors can effect its severity. Many have worked their way through culture shock successfully, some never emerged from it. This writing will serve as a snapshot chronicle of my personal journey through the transitional acculturation process. It seemed only fitting to use the subject as the title. Stay tuned, ought to be interesting ……

     
  • Richard Mansel 12:19 pm on January 16, 2010 Permalink | Reply
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    Dangers to Missionaries 

    Mike  Brooks discusses what it is like to travel to dangerous places as a missionary.

     
  • Richard Mansel 1:45 pm on December 12, 2009 Permalink | Reply
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    Communication 

    Mike Brooks discusses communication for missionaries and in relation to Christ and his mission.

     
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